Etiquette In Swinging
6. CLEANLINESS - Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath.
Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again
when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever,
can do or rather UNDO.

7. RESPECT OTHERS’ FEELINGS - Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes
open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is
not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself.
If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in
mind that not all people feel the same about things.

8. DON’T BE PUSHY - If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if
they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say “No, thank you,” do not ask WHY.
No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you.
Everyone has the right to say “NO” at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.

9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU - Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that
you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with.
You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO - One of the basic etiquettes in swinging is the right of anyone to say “No”.
Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of
a situation,however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise
that everyone has the right to say “No” to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple
“No, thank you”. Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.
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